Bad Boy look

Every single girl says they want a good guy – someone with a future, who’ll treat them nice, give them what they want, buy flowers on Valentine’s Day, get gifts on birthdays and never forget anniversaries. Women say they want someone who won’t hurt them and leave them and will care for them. It’s every little girl’s dream. To meet a good guy, get married, settle down and be with each other for the rest of their lives. As opposed to someone who’ll forget birthdays, get mad for nothing, go crazy for jealousy and will have you crazy mad daily, women should naturally choose the good men. So why do the ladies still pick the bad guys over the good guys?

The mystery behind it all lies in a woman’s desire for adventure – oh and the nature of man to actually like pain to gain. No matter how much women deny it, they love the thrill and adventure of being with someone who can drive them crazy and endlessly mad and yet can make them realize that there is a love worth fighting for. Wonder why Shan Cai chose arrogant, childish, hard-headed Dao Ming Se over sweet, sensible, sensitive Hua Ze Lei in Meteor Garden? It’s for the simple reason that while she may feel at home, safe and relaxed in Hua Ze Lei’s arms, she preferred someone who’d give her thrill and adventurous love like the one Dao Ming Se had.

Aside from all the Koreanovela talk, it’s true. Women prefer a relationship that would be exciting, new, adventurous, romantic and interesting all the time. They want to fight over petty things and then kiss and make up, they want to travel and enjoy life with someone who also has an open mind, they want life that’s free and yet they know it would give them heartbreak and pain.
No matter how much anyone tries to avoid pain in a love life, it’s highly impossible to have a perfect relationship that doesn’t go haywire once in awhile – and when you’re in a relationship, it’s best to fight for a love that you know is worth fighting for. After all, what’s the thrill of a relationship without any fights, right?

Just because women may like bad boys doesn’t necessarily mean shedding off all the good stuff. It just means that sometimes, good guys have to stretch their limits to the point that woman will finally see some spice and thrill within the beauty of good men. Soon enough, despite women’s natural attraction to guys that love black, look like gangsters and have spiked hair, they’ll be looking for someone better – and yet as interesting and adventurous as any other bad boy.

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See! I just can’t get enough of him! He really keeps my thinking caps on! I just can’t get enough of him! What do I do?????

I know from you I need to stay away
It’s my foolish heart I can’t make obey
Placing my heart on a very thin line
Wondering if you’ll ever really be mine

I don’t know what to expect from you
Wishing that my heart would finally come to
I know I deserve someone better
But for me there’s just no other

I don’t know how to let you go
I don’t know how to say I love you so
I don’t know how I’d feel if you’d gone
I don’t know how I’d feel all alone

You play me so well
I don’t know how your words sell
Whatever you say completely blows me
The real you I refuse to see

Pinch this foolish heart of mine
And let me see how you really shine
Your playful heart I cannot fall for
Pain is something I really don’t want more

Foolish Heart
-vaughn 111309 1.07pm-

This is my 3rd poem in the Playboy Series.

It hurts to know that I am falling
Painful to realize that I keep hoping
For a love like yours, I knew too good to be true
Feeling stupid for having been mesmerized by you

I knew too well where this would end
Reality of you I thought I could bend
In the end you’re still holding a playful heart
Like the one I knew even from the start

How painful it is for me to take all the blame
Falling for him puts me at a real shame
After knowing his past and getting all the warning
My heart still went on and kept falling

I don’t know how to let go
I’m heading for a broken heart, I should know
I’m not sure how to move on
Feeling bitter at knowing it’s you who’s won

Un-mesmerize me, leave my heart alone
And please don’t peel my being to the bone
Your charming power I hope to get over
You and this pain I hope to forget forever

Un-mesmerize Me

-vaughn1.57am 111109-

He’s got the smile of such sweet lightning
And the eyes alike the stars twinkling
He’s got the charm of the warmest gentleman
And the childlike humor of no other human

He can make the room brighten with his loud laughter
My heart melting, his whole being every factor
He stands out in a room full of brilliant diamonds
My soul latching onto his soulless bonds

He’s got everything a girl may ever want to have
And the things I swore I’d never fall in love
He can probably have every girl he’d choose to go for
Whatever number they may be, they’d even want more

He looks like Christmas – so beautiful and so fair
Underneath it all, he could be your worst nightmare
He can hurt you like you never thought you could
And break your heart into pieces, depending on his mood

He can look you in the eye and tell you such sweet things
And later find out these are not his real feelings
He’s the most beautiful devil there is
His claws beneath his wings we all miss

I fall anyway for this devil in disguise
Falling and believing in his angelic lies

The Playboy
-vaughn 1.27am 111009-

I really like this series. I haven’t been writing like this continuously in a long time. The problem is, if I continue like this, it’ll only get worse in real time. Ugh. I feel like a drink. A heavy drink. Or clubbing.

I wish I had the strength to turn away
With you I know I must not stay
I can’t not fall for you
But neither can I believe it’s true

I’m not an idiot, you know
I know the feeling, I know I should go
I can’t help looking back
To find that something that I lack

I wait at the gates of my own heart’s doom
It’s you and your heart, is there even any room
You make me fall, you make me want you
And now, I have no idea what to do

You’ll only hurt me, it’s the unstated fact
I need to protect my heart, keep it intact
Keep it far away from your ever sweet lies
The solution of leaving you is what’s wise

I cannot help it, as I wait at the gate
Knowing completely that my heart’s the bait
I look back again and again to search for you
Crestfallen, disappointed, knowing what’s really true

You can either love me or just let me leave
For I want love to be something I can believe
Don’t sugar coat your words, I’m not a kid
I can handle it; it’s my heart in bid.

-vaughn 12.55am 111009-