Bad Boy look
Every single girl says they want a good guy – someone with a future, who’ll treat them nice, give them what they want, buy flowers on Valentine’s Day, get gifts on birthdays and never forget anniversaries. Women say they want someone who won’t hurt them and leave them and will care for them. It’s every little girl’s dream. To meet a good guy, get married, settle down and be with each other for the rest of their lives. As opposed to someone who’ll forget birthdays, get mad for nothing, go crazy for jealousy and will have you crazy mad daily, women should naturally choose the good men. So why do the ladies still pick the bad guys over the good guys?
The mystery behind it all lies in a woman’s desire for adventure – oh and the nature of man to actually like pain to gain. No matter how much women deny it, they love the thrill and adventure of being with someone who can drive them crazy and endlessly mad and yet can make them realize that there is a love worth fighting for. Wonder why Shan Cai chose arrogant, childish, hard-headed Dao Ming Se over sweet, sensible, sensitive Hua Ze Lei in Meteor Garden? It’s for the simple reason that while she may feel at home, safe and relaxed in Hua Ze Lei’s arms, she preferred someone who’d give her thrill and adventurous love like the one Dao Ming Se had.
- Sensitive Hua Ze Lei or arrogant Dao Ming Se
Aside from all the Koreanovela talk, it’s true. Women prefer a relationship that would be exciting, new, adventurous, romantic and interesting all the time. They want to fight over petty things and then kiss and make up, they want to travel and enjoy life with someone who also has an open mind, they want life that’s free and yet they know it would give them heartbreak and pain.
No matter how much anyone tries to avoid pain in a love life, it’s highly impossible to have a perfect relationship that doesn’t go haywire once in awhile – and when you’re in a relationship, it’s best to fight for a love that you know is worth fighting for. After all, what’s the thrill of a relationship without any fights, right?
- Be the best bad boy there is
Just because women may like bad boys doesn’t necessarily mean shedding off all the good stuff. It just means that sometimes, good guys have to stretch their limits to the point that woman will finally see some spice and thrill within the beauty of good men. Soon enough, despite women’s natural attraction to guys that love black, look like gangsters and have spiked hair, they’ll be looking for someone better – and yet as interesting and adventurous as any other bad boy.
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